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Friday, September 14, 2018

Problem-solving skills: are you learning the root or learning tops? New view

Problem-solving skills: are you learning the root or learning tops? New view

Retrieved from lessons 3.Problem-solving skills, New view from Awaken you wonderful we

Many people complain that they have a lot of work, backing home with many works. Flooding in work, study, and family, they do not have free time for themselves. They start learning problem-solving skills. Once applied, life seems easier and lighter than before. In fact, if looking back they are still busy or busier than before. What are the real solutions? What are the bottlenecks need removing?
Problem-solving skills are taught:
After hundreds of blah blah from the teachers, we realize the problems are outside. Problems from family is not ideally happy, sisters do not unite, conflicting all day, spoiled children; my spouse, my children, and my boss do not listen to me; the job is too hard, the price is too expensive, the price escalates, life is difficult due to political instability, politicians, government. Even worse, people blame for the million stars shined in the wrong ways from twenty to fifty years ago when they were born. We find endless sources for our problems from outside. Then we start solving rigidly with the 5WH technique, with a lot of efforts, resources put in to solve the problems. After a while, exhausted with the unsolved problems, or even problems getting bigger and bigger, we stuck into extreme stress. We are ineffective in solving problems. So what is the real problems?
This reminds me of cutting trees. The trees are like your problems; tree of problems in the family, in work and in society. We start to cut down the problem tree. A tree has three parts are roots, stem, and leaves. The ineffective ones carry the ax cut trees in the leaves, tops, and flowers. They can mobilize a lot of people into cutting down foliage, breaking down branches with hundreds of people, tens of years, billions of dollars. People take place hundreds of miscellaneous things around the problem tree with the hope of the tree will die. The tree is still there, although they mobilize a lot of wealth, resources and people. Many useless rewards and conferences have put forth. Useless rewards used for tiny and small achievement which are misunderstood that the milestone achievement.
The problem solved effectively when people cut the ax into the trunk or the root of the tree. One, two, three, four, and five minutes of cutting with about one hundred cuts, with only two people and the tree fall down.
“Oh you really do not need to do this fast, so quickly like that, this is where we get paid for; this is the source of our income. We are paid by time." Moreover, “you are less recognized, praised and less rewarded.”
With the metaphorical image above, the skills learned above are important but not critical; it is equivalent to using axes to cut the leaves of the problem tree; it is hard but ineffective but ineffective people get the most rewards. It can call the paradox for effective and ineffective people.
The decisive factor in solving the problem is not the problem but the individuals who solve the problem. When looking at correlations of solving the problem, let compare the magnitude of the individual and the magnitude of the problem. Moving a ten kilograms stone is a big deal for a small child or a dwarf, but moving a ten kilograms stone is a small problem for an adult or an athlete. Another example is the fifth-grade problem is difficult for students in grade fourth but is a simple problem for students in grades sixth or seventh. Is the problem of reducing difficulty? No problem is still the same, is the problem solver that has matured over time. In the field of life, there are such problems as fatherhood, motherhood, husbandry, self-management, financial management, and spiritual management. Do you say that you are good at solving these problems? If yes, I do not believe much, look at the emotions, the mood of those around you relating to the problem. When I self-arrogate, I often remind myself “Vietnam is a developing country or actually poor country, I am an average member in the country, in society and in the industry; I live in an average apartment in Vietnam, having an average living, which means I have poor thinking in some extent. So please do not be angrily and aggressively defends my point of views - the view of poverty. Do not force others to follow my expectation”.
"I am wrong, not only with wrong actions. The deepening roots of misery are my wrong thoughts; from wrong thoughts creates wrong assumptions; from wrong, assumption creates wrong expectation; from unsatisfied wrong expectation creates wrong emotion; from wrong, emotion creates wrong actions; from wrong actions create misery and stress in life. Wrong things compound with wrong things unconsciously. So the most effective way is I need to learn more to remove my ignorance". This is my best reminder help me from the action at the tempting moment.
Mastering or cutting off the root of the problem here is to enhance the individual's capacity or individuality. Make them bigger than the problems. Instead of complaining that there are too many things, too many problems need to solve; let identifying your small, your foolishness or your ignorance, which real things need to adjust. You need to do more, practice more, challenge more, accumulate more skills, gain more wisdom and achieve the enlightenment. According to many authors, identifying the right sources of the problem has helped solve fifty percent of the problem.
From the authors’ teaching, we can find out how to cultivate the best in process of personal development. Here are some of the ways I collected:
First, Jim Rohn and Brian Tracy recommend have a learning library, lifelong learning, goal - setting, and university on the wheel.
Jim Rohn recommended a library of books, notebooks, and photos, to read, to think and to recite at least 30 minutes a day, several hours a week, one weekend at the end of the month and 2-3 weekend days of the end of the year. Work hard in creating a library, creating a diary. You will not remember the content of the lecture or interesting conference last week, last month or last year. Trust me, if you listened to an interesting lecture a year ago, you will not be able to remember ten percent of that message if you did not record or review in previous time. Please try! Do not trust your memory. Setting goals, when achieving goals, the goals are not important anymore but the person you become when achieving your goals.
Brian Tracy recommends spending at least 30 minutes a day to read the knowledge related to the skill you want to improve. Try to read a lot, one month read at least from one to three books. After one year, you have a large amount of knowledge. He used the number of reading books to illustrate, to get the doctorate, learners have to read and study approximately fifty-five books. If you read and apply fifty-five books in the skill you want to improve, you are already a self-studied doctor. Interestingly, what you are self-motivated is much more effective than the motivation from the pressure from the environment. Learning because of wanting of desiring with the enthusiasm of passion, self-discipline is far more effective than the formal learning; because these are the vital ingredients creating great achievement.
In addition, Brian Tracy also mentions "university on the wheel", meaning that every day we move at least 2-3 hours, if in the car that we listen to audiobook, interesting ideas from books, conferences or teachings. One month we have approximately ninety hours of studying, after a year we have about one thousand hours of studying, which are equivalent to the number of credits in a year of studying in college. University on wheels, after nearly of ten years listening, people can have ten thousand hours of learning, they become outliers. Read the "outliers" of Malcolm Gladwell to understand the concept of ten thousand hours.
Secondly, sources are western philosophy, oriental philosophy and street philosophy. Streets, crowds, life, nature is the place to practice, to contemplate and to apply what we learn and read. Life needs contemplation, testing, and adjustment. Always pay close attention to the PDCA in everything: planning, doing, checking and adjusting. Skillful in apply the lessons from Buddha, Jesus Christ, Mother Teresa, Confucius, Lao Tzu, Socrates, Plato and many other great men, who create the foundations of modern philosophy. Their teaching contains empathy, love, persistence, generosity, serving heart, dedication, simplicity, self - discipline, principle, virtues, compassion, humility; which are enduring values.

Thirdly, we can gain wisdom and enlightenment by practicing meditation. In a lot of teaching of Buddha; and the follower of Buddha are Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, and Matthieu Ricard, people can easily practice and take the most advantage from meditation. People can create joy, happiness, and peace of mind from meditation. And the scientists, the researcher can control the focus of the mind, have a better view of themselves so that they will not fall into the trap of thinking.
Fourthly, Seth Godin, John C Maxwell, Daniel Goleman, Stephen Covey, Tony Robbin, Albert Einstein, Thich Nhat Hanh and many other extraordinary authors. They mention EQ: emotional intelligence, PQ: passion intelligence, AQ: adapting intelligence and SQ: spiritual intelligence. These are the abilities to master one's emotions, to master the self; the ability to lead others, the ability to interact with people, environment to create the wanted changes. The individuals mastered AQ, EQ, PQ, SQ is the leaders in society. In addition, they also recommend that children and adults should remain the precious characters: endless curiosity; creativity, skillfully in asking the question; nourishing the imagination and keeping the spirit of the young child inside. These are the channels to keep the energy run smoothly between individuals and environment. Use these channels people can stimulate the ideas directly to the unconscious mind, create happy emotion long before the conscious mind know what is happening. The smoother the energy, the better the body, family, and organization are. Parents can nourish these qualities in their children much more effective than the schools do. These qualities can be safe for the rigid of modern education. Pay attention to lead, learn and act so that you and others around you have these qualities of endless curiosity; creativity, skillfully in asking the question; nourishing the imagination, keeping the spirit of the young child inside, and the intelligence of AQ, PQ, SQ, EQ.
Citation:
Van D. Dao. Awaken You Wonderful We. Amazon.com 2017.

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Hanoi, 18/11/2016. 

Thursday, February 22, 2018

PARADOXES OF HARVARD - PARADOXES OF SCIENCE - PARADOXES OF THE RICH.


PARADOXES OF HARVARD
PARADOXES OF SCIENCE
PARADOXES OF THE RICH.


It is not controlling the gun, but the most important is control the things that make the head use the gun

It is not gun-control but most important is control what makes the mind want to use the gun to fire.

Forget the gun, arguing about it later, focus time to think to prevent the millions of healthy kids, workers, citizens, soldiers today from committing gunfire in the future.

Forget the gun, arguing about it later, focus time to think to prevent the millions of healthy kids, workers, citizens, soldiers today from committing gunfire, suicide, homicide or getting depression in the future.

It is not gun-control but most important is control what coded the healthy body with healthy mind to the state of wanting to fire to others.

Awaken Buddies:

124 Americans died from suicide/day.
Over 50 % of all people who die by suicide suffer from major depression.
PARADOXES OF THE RICH MAKE FAIL THE MODERN SCIENCE: Every day, approximately 121 Americans take their own life.

Autism, Depression, ADHD: need to read 3 signals: 1. Indifference: no energy/activities 2. Fight: overreact to things. 3. Fight: to crowd has fear, anxiety, withdraw
Watch out to see any LIVING CREATURE:
1. Indifference - 2. Fight
3. and Flight all days.

Dogs, instinctive creatures, have the park, out twice a day. If not it will get AUTISM, ADHD, DEPRESSION with felt signs: INDIFFERENCE, FIGHT, FLIGHT. Sadly, Kids is in boxes
Felt signs: INDIFFERENCE, FIGHT &  FLIGHT from IRRATIONAL MIND forgotten by RATIONAL scientists: Dog's living maybe better than Autistic kid's

Felt signs caught by the Religious leader, artist, Educator, better than Ph.D., Scientist & Autistic machine. So NLP, affirmation, meditation is better than medicine, punishment

How can we heal, prevent, treat the things we do not know? A lot of resources put in researching and carrying out but the trend of Suicide, Autism, ADHD, Gunfire are Soaring???

Felt signs caught by the Religious leader, artist, Educator, better than Ph.D., Scientist & Autistic machine. So NLP, affirmation, meditation is better than medicine, punishment
How can we heal, prevent, treat the things we do not know? A lot of resources put in researching and carrying out but the trend of Suicide, Autism, ADHD, Gunfire are Soaring???

SAD FACT:

Depression 25 million Americans suffer from depression each year. Awaken You Wonderful We
 EXCUSE ME
 WHEN WILL WE INTERPRET STATE or QUALITY HUMAN MIND into EVENTS, DISEASES, and DISASTERS
EVENTS: gunfire, homicide;
DISEASES: autism, ADHD, Depression, Suicide, Chronic diseases, and
DISASTERS: flood, Tsunami, Earthquake...
and its increasing TREND is the interdependent phenomena?


 Golden time may be lost:

Just remind: in the family, if parents arguing, attacking each other: they do not want to eat, sleep, play or enjoy thing because of anger. Their good kids will suffer more stress than the total stress of both parents. How on earth they can feel safety and encouragement to learn, try, fail, learn, try and fail to gain vital social skills from society. kids left in Jungle raised by wolves tend to move by 4 legs (hand and foot) and barking like Wolves. Golden time of learning may be lost because of useless argument. no need to do research, just remember your childhood, observe and ask kids about that.
 Will the infants/kids develop well in the stress environment? The fact is there are many mothers got depression after giving birth every year.
 Things I know is that most victims lack EQ or interaction skill, they understand things differently than most normal people understand. So misunderstanding may make all participants of interaction PAIN.
 Autistic kids, ADHD kids may become talented ones but they only good at logical work, they never good at interacting or persuading work.
YOU WILL NEVER FIND TALENTED AUTISTIC ONES GOOD AT EQ so they will feel pain in dealing with people. Over time they may have a habit of negative responses.

1. Unconditioned love & 2. Connection with variety: nature and people & 3. Challenging make Abilities; if bigger than PROBLEMS winner of Autism, ADHD, Depression.

These kids lack EQ or Social/ interaction skills. They may become the talent, but only with logical works, not interaction or persuasion works.

We need to discuss for Right understanding: "Yes to Can Autism, ADHD, Depression can be predicted, prevent, and heal"
SCIENCE???
KNOWLEDGE???
What are they?
Wrong useless opinions supported by modified proofs scientifically. Or useful ideas that cant calculated with the logical equation of science? 

PARADOXES OF SCIENCE:

Are most simple ideas of a few great men, philosophers in tiny writing are science or not: Lao Tzu, Jesu Christ, Socrates, Benjamin Franklin, Lincoln, Einstein, Aesop, Mother Teresa, Gandhi Gothe, Shakespear, enlightened Zen Master... These ideas have the longest half-life: decades, centuries, or live with the existence of human being.

First group:
But they were still humble to teach: "Einstein, Socrates, Peter Drucker said best thinker is forgotten all you know, assumptions, and know nothing."
What Ph.ds, Dr, Professors do? Just observe the attitude, thin-slicing the conversation, you will know the answer.

Or the second:
The complicated ideas in the thick books, in hundred, thousand or millions pages written by graduates, master, Ph.Ds, Professors? It too much complicated that many Ph.D. said they take years to read and understand. These ideas have very short half-life: moths or years, or just several days. When they believe, they may see its part of their identities, they may die or sacrifice for these changing ideas.

What makes me think? Said fact, whatever economic grown, standard of living uplifted, the bad ones still soaring that out of control of all developed governments: "

I AM SORRY FOR:

- 124 Americans died from suicide/day.
- Over 50 % of all people who die by suicide suffer from major depression
- 25 million Americans suffer from depression each year.
AND SMART ONES ARE ARGUING AND BUYING MISSLE, WEAPONS, VILLAS, AIRPLANE, LUXURY SHOES, LUXURY BAGS, ... to save to satisfy the Basic Human Needs (see the teaching of MASLOW)

Antidepression: Read again, live again, act again, do again, fail again until realize life is the miracle. Medicine won't help much.
MY answer is YES to Autism, ADHD, Depression, and Suicide can be predicted, prevented and better intervented.

Some thoughts, paradoxes of healing that makes me want to find the answer and put in this book
"EMOTION IS FROM HEAD, NOT HEART. This is the key to open the door to prevent and cure Autism, ADHD, and Suicide. WHAT DO YOU THINK?"

The brain is the most important organ in the body: accounts for 3% of body weight but consumes 20% of body's energy. The quality of brain determines the quality of mind or thinking. And the food of thinking is ideas. Whatis the food you feed the mind of you, your spouse, and kids every day?
"Stress creates mental illness, depression. What' mechanism? What happens if newborn kids, infants suffer the same stress? Autism/ADHD?

"If you think you can or can't, you are right" Henry Ford. Do you think Autism, ADHD are preventable and solvable?"
WHY SHOULD AUTISM BE CURED?

"I am sorry, kids do not happy with autism. The way they react is the react in fear, anxiety or aggressive like Fight and Flight mechanism. Over time they will definitely be trapped by the rainbow of Autism. Do you think so? You think they are happy, but they react to stress, fear, and anxiety. Because of lacking social skill or EQ. If continue most of them will trap more serious mental and health problems. Even with positive affirmation, they and their family are suffering the problems. People afraid of if their kids, have autism or not!!!"

Just discussing or ignoring. I have 2 kids, meditate, learn pop psychology, have a degree in pharmacy, have compassion heart. the mind is guided by the simple philosophy of great men: Lao Tzu, Einstein, and Socrate, Peter Drucker... so forget your useless assumption to start a discussion.

Do you know conditioned response? Your language, skill, driving skills, professions, the pattern of behaviors and pattern of emotion, fear or anxiety or excitement are CONDITIONED RESPONSES. Even Walking, naming, ritual, taboos are coded in the mind of people, dogs, or tamed animals as conditioned responses. infant left in Jungle will have the conditioned responses of the animals which adopt him. Maybe he will like to crawl instead of walk.

WHAT HAPPENS if golden time: formation of the brain and vital social skills lack vital things? Forget the useless assumption. As I know, many Ph.D. have the highest degree in psychology but do not live well with husband and family, rigid knowledge does not help us much.

Ask "I HAVE BIPOLAR AND I WANT TO GET OUT THIS THIS, PLEASE HELP."

"Meditate, change your state of mind will change your body, health with happy chemical: dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, endorphins. These are the chemical that drug for antidepression or mental illness aims to increase in the body. Love, hug, connection, understand or be understood, then abilities people should focus. When you have abilities over your problems, good EQ (emotional intelligent by observing, thinking, interacting) you will never stress with the living in human society."

I AM SORRY, WE ARE WRONG

WE ARE CODED WITH THE GREED, WITH MORE, BEAUTIFUL CAR, LUXURY HOUSE, BEAUTIFUL VILLAS, BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES
BEAUTIFUL
but for what.
To create feelings.
YEAH, MEN SEARCH FOR FEELINGS.
BUT NOT THIS SHALLOW FEELINGS.
Feelings come from satisfying the NEED.
6 basic human needs: certainty, uncertainty, love and connection, significant, development/growth and contribution.
What this car satisfied? GREED, Sorry, before I think they who sit in this car are successful ones, but now I realize they are still the slave of SENSUAL FEELINGS.

They may be called success but they are still the slave of Greed, look deeper we may see the anger.
They may use drugs, hypnotic, narcotic to find the relief, relaxation, and sleep.

I LOVE THE PEOPLE, I KNOW THEY WILL NEVER SIT ON THIS:
BENJAMIN FRANKLIN, GANDHI, BUDDHA, MOTHER TERESA, WARREN BUFFET. And millions of activists, monks who love life, people, the hunger, the disable and nature.


Pavlov has taught about Conditioned Reflex.

NLP, speakers, trainers, motivators take advantages of this with the science of mind and achievement.
All art of communicating is using the knowledge of mind to talk, discuss and persuade people based on the need of people.
THINGS ALL SHOULD KNOW IS PEOPLE ARE CONTROLLED BY HUMAN DRIVE: certainty, uncertainty, love and connection, significance, Growth, and contribution. The perceived opinions about the normal things a threat to these need will create the mechanism of Fight and Flight in people.


The mind is Irrational.

SO
Anger, anxiety, behavior, depressed, name, lack of mindfulness, lack of concentration, taboo, fear, happiness are Conditioned Responses; they are unconsciously coded in brain, cells, genes and silently control us.
It can explain why many Alternative therapies help chronic diseases. So best of all is an effective combination the advantages of all therapist.

Do you think the pills that pharmacy sell, therapist recommend, and Ph.D. created work for you?

It is good for acute and knows the causes, and characters of causes.
But
IT JUST MAKE TEMPORARY and short-term. FOR LONG TERM on the mind, forget medication, start to find meditation TO CALM THE MIND.

SLEEPNESS COME FROM WORRY OF THE DISEASES OF YOUR CHILD, THE ANGER OF THE WORKPLACE, THE FEAR OF YOUR FAULT MAY BE REVEALED. YES, THE MIND.

SLEEPNESS, HEADACHE, STOMACH ACHE, IMPOTENCE, LOST OF APPETITE, LACKING CONCENTRATION, DISTRACTION COME FROM WORRY OF THE DISEASES OF YOUR CHILD, THE ANGER OF THE WORKPLACE, THE FEAR OF YOUR FAULT MAY BE REVEALED, THE DISCONTENTMENT FROM NOT POSSESSING EXPENSIVE CARS, LUXURY APARTMENTS. YES, THE MIND.

SLEEPNESS, ANXIETY, HEADACHE, STOMACH ACHE COME FROM THE PRESSURE IN FAMILY, SCHOOL, THE TESTES, THE EXAMINES, THE INTERVIEW, THE DEADLINES. YES, THE MIND.

SLEEPING PILLS, PAINKILLER, PAIN RELIEVERS, MUSCLE RELAXATION ONLY MAKE TEMPORARY RELIEF. IT IS NOT CURE THE CHRONIC DISEASES AT ALL.

PATIENT WITH CHRONIC DISEASES USE TOO MUCH SLEEPING PILLS, PAINKILLER, PAIN RELIEVERS, MUSCLE RELAXATION MAY BE ADDICTED TO IT TO FIND THE TEMPORARY RELAXATION OR TEMPORARY GOOD FEELINGS. THAT WHY YOU TAKE MEDICATION FOR WEEKS, MONTHS OR YEARS BUT DO NOT HELP RELIEVING THE CHRONIC DISEASES.

HERE IS THE SIDE EFFECTS OF STRESS, THE RAINBOW OF STRESS, THE SYNDROME OF STRESS IN THE BODY. CLOSE YOUR EYE, FEEL THE INVISIBLE WE MAY SEE THE STATE OF MINDS EVERYWHERE.

"Do you know: when you are sleeping, your brain still works to review, correct, and create the changes side the brain and body, genes that we do not know. But we know how brain/ mind works by observing the pattern of sleeping with changing the pressure from the environment: EEG, Slow-wave sleep, REM sleep. We know that some chronic patients have some things strange with their genes, does its changes first or state of mind, environment create it then diseases are the perceivable symptoms."
Stress start from the state of mind.
"It is not cold, virus, flu make American ill, but the stressed mind. January is the most stressed month because of tired working, pressure from work, pressure from the deadline of the credit card, mainly from Stressed, Discontented, Hysterical MIND."
"If yes, only medication, pain reliever, opioids are useless; punishment is useless, prison is not enough. We need to think of an alternative technique to calm the mind, soothe the pain and find inner peace for all: meditation, and lifelong learning."
"Use a smartwatch to record the changing of the body to know the changing of the state of mind, emotion: hatred, anger, stress, depression, and love."

Stressed in the family, no matter rich or poor usually have simple patterns:

+ Father with cardiovascular diseases, sexual dysfunction.
+ Mother with mental diseases: depression, autoimmune diseases, stomach problems or thyroid problems.
+ Kids under stress: upset stomach, vomiting, cold, flu symptoms. or Autism, ADHD, over-react, rebelling and/ or junior autoimmune diseases.
"Check these symptoms to know you are under stress or not, only by SMART WATCH."
AUTISM, ADHD...
‎What would you do if you have to live like them?
IF THEY MAY LIVE, EAT, GET VACCINE UNDER STRESS, FEAR, ANXIETY, AND HISTERIA, DISGUST, CONTEMPT. PLAY IN FEAR, BORING SAFE-SIDE. EXHAUSTED IN A RACE THAT NEVER ends”


Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin, and cortisone, and its effects are the best explanation for varieties of problems rainbow.


- Effects of Adrenalin: Sweating, Nausea and vomiting, Pale skin, Feeling short of breath, Dizziness, Weakness or tremors, Headache, Feeling of nervousness or anxiousness.
- Effects of Norepinephrine: Pain, burning, Numbness, weakness, or cold, Slow or uneven heart rate, Trouble breathing, Vision, speech, or balance difficulties, Blue lips or fingernails, Spotted skin.
- Minor side effects Cortisol: Acne, dry skin, or thinning skin, Bruising or discoloration of skin, Insomnia, Mood changes, Increased sweating, Headache, Dizziness, Nausea, stomach pain,
- Serious side effects cortisol: Vision problems, Swelling, Rapid weight gain, Shortness of breath, Severe depression or unusual thoughts or behaviors, Seizures, Bloody or tarry stools, Coughing up blood, and pancreatitis: pain in your upper stomach that spreads to your back; nausea and vomiting; or fast heart rate.
Under stress state, cardiovascular medication only makes the temporary relief.
Because of me, because of you I always enjoy these chemicals in eating, receiving, getting, giving, sleeping and enjoying.
- The combination of these four factors describes the big difference in boy and girls in autism, ADHD: the instinctive advantages of female makes the cute make girl do not get problems.
Father said: “the day autistic child happy he will less over-react than the stressful day.”

Our angels

“They live in stress, eating in fear, sleeping in anxiety, playing in the boring safe side, wearing luxury clothes in discontentment, studying with pressure, getting lifesaving vaccination hysterically, and sexing with contempt. They never find the real joy and happiness. Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin and cortisone created countless side effects on patients, which listed in any medical book.”
• “You do not teach healthy kids to learn the languages: English, Japanese, Chinese, and Vietnamese... but kids can make it become their instinct. That is the nature of learning without learning, Kid under three years old can do this as instinct.
Will the infants/kids develop well in the stress environment? The facts are there are many old never have to sit in table to learn, but they learn every time with joy”
• “Nature of learning is learning without stress, learn just with joy, enthusiasm, with love, endless energy, and participate of all intelligence. The environment just supplies Unconditioned Love, Connection – Understanding, Encourage Environment, and Chances of Building Abilities.”
• “Walking, thinking, speaking native languages, studying countless skills: one-year-old kids, two-year-old kids, three-year-old kids never have to sit at the table to learn. But that time kids can learn more than anybody can imagine. Think about that before any blind intervention.”
• “Playing is learning, watching is learning, sleeping is learning, and doing are learning… Kids may experience “Flow” from the early stage of life. Kids’ most powerful tools are the weakness, beloved, cute, enthusiasm, pay attention, curiosity, asking, imagining, and learn, try, fail, think, learn, try, fail, think, learn, try, fail, think With Joy and safety. Think about that before each time of intervention.”
• “Best for kids: accept we may wrong to learn to create chances for kids grow. Socrates smart because he said he did not know anything. I feel cramp of Gut feelings when seeing the parents of kids with lots of problems said they know all things and start to blame all things except themselves for their problems.”

YOU HAVE KNOWLEDGE AND STUCK WITH YOUR PROBLEMS.

BUT YOU NEED WISDOM AND ENLIGHTENMENT
"You ask which research or publication my writing based?
"I go first to solve human problems, and scientists will prove it latter as Einstein 's theory."

"Yes, brain. When the brain is forming most: fetus and infant: what will happen if the immature brain formed in Stress, severe stress."

"I mean always shouting, blaming, crying, beating."

"If the brain can mature enough to overcome the stressful childhood. What the brain will be conditioned if they experience beating, shouting, separating, raping, ... SOME MOTHERs SO STRESSED THAT THEY GOT DEPRESSION AFTER BIRTH."

"The fact is many people in wealthy countries are using antidepression medication to find the relief. Most of the anti-depression medication is used to stimulate happy chemical: serotonin in Brain. When kissing, hugging, doing good, recognizing.. can stimulate Serotonin in the brain."
"Things are so simple but people try to make it complicated."
"All in one: behavior, gut feeling, heartbeat, state of mind, mental illness, quality of sleep, genes are one."
"Power of simplicity: Book that teaches wisdom, enlightenment: Te-Tao Ching with 5000 words equal to 30 pages is much profound and useful than five thousand pages of psychology books and psychiatry books that students have to become psychologists or psychiatrists."

"If you think you can or can't, you are right" I have met many Ph.Ds said Autism, ADHD cannot prevent, sooth or cure. DO YOU?"
"Do ADHD, Autism, mental problems, insomnia, headache, suicide problems, social problems, stomach, heart,… the War HAVE RELATION?"
"Strength from inside is the best power that no need to cover my expensive phone, luxury bag, big degree to find safety, importance."

"Awaken You Wonderful We
Awaken Parents Wonderful Kids
Awaken You Wonderful Kid
waken Teachers Wonderful students
Awaken Politicians Wonderful World"

"Stress can make mental illness, depression, what is the mechanism? What will happen if newborn kids, infants suffer the same stress?"
"Stress creates mental illness, depression. What' mechanism? What happens if newborn kids, infants suffer the same stress? Autism/ADHD?"
I am on the way to deal with it, do you want to join in?
























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Color of the wind: The root of problems 

 Michael Jackson - Earth Song (Official Video) 

Kelly Clarkson - Because Of You (VIDEO): Chorus of the good kids that parents do not know



Saturday, January 20, 2018

Teaching of Lao Tzu - How we can know where is the source of our problems and diseases, especially mental illness

Reading the teaching of Lao Tzu and Buddha, I know that great achievement and happiness comes from the action without expectation, action without condition, or unconditional love.

Positive emotion, enthusiasm, energy belong to attitude, that why positive attitude can be understood that taking action vigorously and selflessly without expectation. Positive people take little material but gain the most for the mind and brain. I want to brow the teaching of Lao Tzu to summarize some of the principles. His teachings are so profound that we can inherit to understand our stupid, to correct our mistakes. It is time to stop our ignorance; it is time to correct our mistakes. Only a few basics principles to follow to have a happy life, so that happiness comes from putting heart into actions that follow the moral and virtue, from understanding and acting; happiness does not come from knowing, studying and abundance living without taking action. People who master the science of achievement and success in career, but still violating the virtue, the principles in the art of happiness, also get stress in life.
There is the effortless way in the teaching of the Lao Tzu from Te-Tao Ching, all he taught is the paradoxes of life. In history, some dictators may use the paradoxes and power of rhetoric to seduces people commit the war. Owning for the education, we know to understand these paradoxes and use it to mater the life.

1. Tao and Primal Virtue:
All things arise from Tao.
They are nourished by Virtue.
They are formed from matter.
They are shaped by environment
Thus the ten thousand things all respect Tao and honor Virtue.
Respect of Tao and honor of Virtue are not demanded,
But they are in the nature of things.
Therefore all things arise from Tao
By Virtue, they are nourished,
Developed, cared for,
Sheltered, comforted,
Grown, and protected.
Creating without claiming,
Doing without taking credit,
Guiding without interfering,
This is Primal Virtue. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

2. Rule a nation with justice.
Wage war with surprise moves.
Become master of the universe without striving.
How do I know that this is so?
Because of:
The more laws and restrictions there are,
The poorer people become.
The sharper men's weapons,
The more trouble in the land.
The more ingenious and clever men are,
The more strange things happen.
The more rules and regulations,
The more thieves and robbers.
Therefore the sage says:
I take no action and people are reformed.
I enjoy the peace and people become honest.
I do nothing and people become rich.
I have no desires and people return to the good and simple life. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

3. Practice non-action.
Work without doing.
Taste the tasteless.
Magnify the small, increase the few.
Reward bitterness with care.
See simplicity in the complicated.
Achieve greatness in little things.
In the universe, the difficult things are done as if they are easy.
Great acts are made up of small deeds.
The sage does not attempt anything big,
And thus achieved greatness.
Easy promises make for little trust.
Taking things lightly results in great difficulty.
Because the sage always confronts difficulties,
He never experiences them. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

4. Peace is easily maintained;
Trouble is easily overcome before it starts.
The brittle is easily shattered;
The small is easily scattered.
Deal with it before it happens.
Set things in order before there is confusion.
A tree as great as a man's embrace springs up from a small shoot;
A terrace nine stories high begins with a pile of earth;
A journey of a thousand miles starts with one footstep.
He who acts defeats his own purpose;
Try to change it, ruin it.
Try to hold it, lose it.
The sage does not act, and so is not defeated.
He does not grasp and therefore does not lose.
People usually fail when they are on the verge of success.
So give as much care to the end as to the beginning;
Then there will be no failure.
Therefore, the sage seeks freedom from desire.
He does not collect precious things.
He learns not to hold on to ideas.
He brings men back to what they have lost.
He helps the ten thousand things find their own nature,
But refrains from action.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

5. The good
A good soldier is not violent.
A good fighter is not angry.
A good winner is not vengeful
A good employer is humble.
This is the Virtue of not striving.
This is the ability to deal with people.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

6. Paradoxes of more
Too many colors blind the eye.
Too many words deafen the ear.
Too many flavors dull the taste.
Racing and hunting madden the mind.
Precious things lead one astray.
Greed will destroy them.
I have three things to teach
Simplicity, patience, and compassion
Simplicity, patience, and compassion
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies,
You accord with the way things are.
Compassionate toward yourself,
You reconcile all beings in the world.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

7. Knowledge and humility
Knowing others is wisdom;
Knowing the self is enlightenment.
Mastering others is strength;
Mastering yourself is true power.
He who knows he has enough is rich.
Perseverance is a sign of willpower.
He who stays where he is enduring.
To die but not to perish is to be eternally present.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
8. Ridiculous aimless
Stop thinking, and end your problems.
What difference between yes and no?
What difference between success and failure?
Must you value what others value,
Avoid what others avoid
Fight what others fight
Die what other die?
How ridiculous!
Other people are excited,
as though they were at a parade.
I alone don't care,
I alone am expressionless,
like an infant before it can smile.

Other people have what they need;
I alone possess nothing.
I alone drift about,
like someone without a home.
I am an idiot, my mind is so empty.

Other people are bright;
I alone am dark.
Other people are sharp;
I alone am dull.
Other people have purpose;
I alone don't know.
I drift like a wave on the ocean,
I blow as aimless as the wind.

I am different from ordinary people.
I drink from the Great Mother's breasts.

9. Embracing Tao, embracing love
Embracing Tao, you become embraced.
Supple, breathing gently, you become reborn.
Clearing your vision, you become clear.
Nurturing your beloved, you become impartial.
Opening your heart, you become accepted.
Accepting the World, you embrace Tao.
Bearing and nurturing,
Creating but not owning,
Giving without demanding,
Guiding without interfering,
This is love. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

10. Unknown primal
Close your mouth,
block off your senses,
blunt your sharpness,
untie your knots,
soften your glare,
settle your dust.
This is the primal identity. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

11. Desire and peace
When there is no desire,
All things are at peace.
Hope and fear are both phantoms
That arises from thinking of the self.
When we don't see the self as self,
What do we have to fear?
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

12. Paradoxes of in and out, visible and invisible
True words aren't eloquent;
Eloquent words aren't true.
Wise men don't need to prove their point;
Men who need to prove their point aren't wise.
The Master has no possessions.
The more he does for others,
The happier he is.
The more he gives to others,
The wealthier he is.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
13. Look inside the heart
My teachings are easy to understand
And easy to put into practice.
Yet your intellect will never grasp them,
And if you try to practice them, you'll fail.
My teachings are older than the world.
How can you grasp their meaning?
If you want to know me,
Look inside your heart.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
14. Aimless and purposeless
A good traveler has no fixed plans
And is not intent upon arriving.
A good artist lets his intuition
Lead him wherever it wants.
A good scientist has freed himself from concepts
And keeps his mind open to what is.
Thus the Master is available to all people
And doesn't reject anyone.
He is ready to use all situations
And doesn't waste anything.
This is called embodying the light.
What is a good man but a bad man's teacher?
What is a bad man but a good man's job?
If you don't understand this, you will get lost,
In grief and joy, losing and gaining, past and future.
However intelligent you are!
It is the great secret.
He who stands on tiptoe
Doesn't stand firm.
He who rushes ahead
Doesn't go far.
He who tries to shine
Dims his own light.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

15. Non-desire, unlearn, but Tao
He who defines himself
Can't know who he really is.
He who has power over others
Can't empower himself.
He who clings to his work
Will create nothing that endures.
If you want to accord with the Tao,
Just do your job, then let go.
Rushing into action, you fail.
Trying to grasp things, you lose them.
Forcing a project to completion,
You ruined what was almost ripe.
Therefore the Master takes action
By letting things take their course.
He remains as calm at the end
As at the beginning.
He has nothing,
This has nothing to lose.
What he desires is non-desire;
What he learns is to unlearn.
He simply reminds people
Of who they have always been.
He cares about nothing but the Tao.
Thus he can care for all things.
Not-knowing is true knowledge.
Presuming to know is a disease.
First, realize that you are sick;
Then you can move toward health. \
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

16. What to improve, what to change?
Do you want to improve the world?
I don't think it can be done.
The world is sacred.
It can't be improved.
If you tamper with it, you'll ruin it.
If you treat it like an object, you'll lose it.
There is a time for being ahead,
A time for being behind;
A time for being in motion,
A time for being at rest;
A time for being vigorous,
A time for being exhausted;
A time for being safe,
A time for being in danger.
The Master sees things as they are,
without trying to control them.
She lets them go their own way,
And resides at the center of the circle.
A great nation is like a great man
When he makes a mistake, he realizes it.
Having realized it, he admits it.
Having admitted it, he corrects it.
He considers those who point out his faults
As his most benevolent teachers.
He thinks of his enemy
As the shadow that he himself casts.
Failure is an opportunity.
If you blame someone else,
There is no end to the blame.
Therefore the Master
Fulfill her own obligations
And corrects her own mistakes.
She does what she needs to do
And demands nothing of others.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

17. Paradoxes of true
True perfection seems imperfect,
Yet it is perfectly itself.
True fullness seems empty,
Yet it is fully present.
True straightness seems crooked.
True wisdom seems foolish.
True art seems artless. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

18. Learn from children
He who is in harmony with the Tao
Is like a newborn child.
Its bones are soft, its muscles are weak,
But its grip is powerful.
It can scream its head off all day,
Yet it never becomes hoarse,
So complete is its harmony.
The Master's power is like this.
He lets all things come and go
Effortlessly, without desire.
He never expects results;
Thus he is never disappointed.
He is never disappointed;
Thus his spirit never grows old. Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

19. The gate of mystery
The Tao that can be told is not the eternal Tao.
The name that can be named is not the eternal name.
The nameless is the beginning of heaven and earth.
The named is the mother of ten thousand things.
Ever desireless, one can see the mystery.
Ever desiring, one can see the manifestations.
These two spring from the same source but differ in name;
this appears as darkness.
Darkness within darkness.
The gate to all mystery.
Without opening your door,
You can open your heart to the world.
Without looking out your window,
You can see the essence of the Tao.
The more you know,
The less you understand.
The Master arrives without leaving,
Sees the light without looking,
Achieves without doing a thing.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
20. Paradoxes are everywhere
Thus it is said:
The path into the light seems dark,
The path forward seems to go back,
The direct path seems long,
True power seems weak,
True purity seems tarnished,
True steadfastness seems changeable,
True clarity seems obscure,
The greatest is seems unsophisticated,
The greatest love seems indifferent,
The greatest wisdom seems childish.
The Tao is nowhere to be found.
Yet it nourishes and completes all things.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

21. Intelligence versus enlightenment

Have done with learning,
And you will have no more vexation.
Intelligence versus enlightenment is
How great is the difference between eh and o?
What is the distinction between good and evil?
Must I fear what others fear?
What abysmal nonsense this is!
All men are joyous and beaming,
As though feasting upon a sacrificial ox,
As though mounting the Spring Terrace;
I alone am placid and give no sign,
Like a babe which has not yet smiled.
I alone am forlorn as one who has no home to return to.
All men have enough and to spare:
I alone appear to possess nothing.
What a fool I am!
What a muddled mind I have!
All men are bright, bright:
I alone am dim, dim.
All men are sharp, sharp:
I alone am mum, mum!
Bland like the ocean,
Aimless like the wafting gale
All men settle down in their grooves:
I alone am stubborn and remain outside.
But wherein I am most different from others is
In knowing to take sustenance from my Mother!
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
22. Out of sensory threshold

Look, and it can't be seen.
Listen, and it can't be heard.
Reach, and it can't be grasped
How intelligent men know the world?
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
23. Balancing of a great way

The great Way is easy,
Yet people prefer the side paths.
Be aware when things are out of balance.
Simplicity without a name
Is free from all external aim.
With no desire, at rest and still,
All things go right as of their will.
So the un-wanting soul
Sees what’s hidden, mysteriously
And the ever-wanting soul
Sees only what it wants, sensually
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
24. Greatness Tao is from present to forgotten

When the greatness of Tao is present,
The action arises from one’s own heart.
When the greatness of Tao is absent,
The action comes from the rules of kindness and justice.
If you need rules to be kind and just,
If you have to act virtuous,
This is a sure sign that virtue is absent.
The more lack of virtues, the more useless law, and rules created.
Chaos, destruction, fighting, diseases,
And extinction begins to flourish.
Dying and scarifying is honored
Values becoming upside down.
Countless efforts and ideas,
Intelligence and solutions turn to speed the extinction.
Or become useless because of the wrong roots.
Thus, we see the great hypocrisy.
Only when does the family lose its harmony
People soon do hear of dutiful sons.
Only when the state is in chaos do we hear of loyal ministers.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
25. The master’s way

The gentlest thing in the world
Overcomes the hardest thing in the world.
That which has no substance
Enters where there is no space.
This shows the value of non-action.
Teaching without words,
Performing without actions:
That is the Master's way.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

26. Great Tao is forgotten
When the great Tao is forgotten,
Goodness and piety appear.
When the body's intelligence declines,
Cleverness and knowledge step forth.
When there is no peace in the family,
Filial piety begins.
When the country falls into chaos,
Patriotism is born.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
27. Follow the Tao
If you want to become whole, let yourself be partial.
If you want to become straight, let yourself be crooked.
If you want to become full, let yourself be empty.
If you want to be reborn, let yourself die as go to sleep every evening.
If you want to be given everything, give everything up.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
28. Interdependent, inter-beings world
When people see some things as beautiful,
Other things become ugly.
When people see some things as good,
Other things become bad.
Being and non-being create each other.
Difficult and easy support each other.
Long and short define each other.
High and low depend on each other.
Before and after follow each other.

29. Act of the master
Understanding the forming of forests
Nature and heavenly earth
Therefore the Master
Acts without doing anything
And teaches without saying anything.
Things arise and she lets them come;
Things disappear and she lets them go.
She has but doesn't possess,
Acts but doesn't expect.
When her work is done, she forgets it.
That is why it lasts forever.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
30. Bellows Tao

The Tao doesn't take sides;
It gives birth to both good and evil.
The Master doesn't take sides;
She welcomes both saints and sinners.
The Tao is like a bellows:
It is empty yet infinitely capable.
The more you use it, the more it produces;
The more you talk about it, the less you understand.
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching
31. In harmony with Tao

In harmony with the Tao,
The sky is clear and spacious,
The earth is solid and full,
All creatures flourish together,
Content with the way they are,
Endlessly repeating themselves,
Endlessly renewed.
When man interferes with the Tao
The sky becomes filthy,
The earth becomes depleted,
The equilibrium crumbles,
Creatures become extinct.
Whoever is planted in the Tao
Will not be rooted up.
Whoever embraces the Tao
Will not slip away.
Her name will be held in honor
From generation to generation.
Let the Tao be present in your life
And you will become genuine.
Let it be present in your family
And your family will flourish.
Let it be present in your country
And your country will be an example
To all countries in the world.
Let it be present in the universe
Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

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